Hey guys,
Like many of you, I have paid for hundreds/thousands of dollars of “therapy” in various ways that was like…. maybe somewhat helpful, sometimes? But definitely not worth the price they charge. Sometimes they are like ohhh do this and that and I’m like dude… I could have GOOGLED THIS! Over the past couple of years Shelly has helped me immensely through many challenges. I find she understands when I talk about my challenges in a non judgemental way and gives it to me in a loving yet direct and not sugar coated way.
Here are some CRAZY things that Shelly said (I’m sure there’s more but here’s what I can remember recently from 2 readings this week and last week:
What Shelly said:
– she said that when I hear about or see a leaky tap or water dripping that this is a sign that I am on my way to finding gainful employment.
– What came true:
The NEXT DAY my cousin calls me (we haven’t spoken in like 2 weeks) and is like Hey, my work wanted me to come into work on my day off but I was like NO, I have a Leaky Tap that is Dripping Water and needs fixing!
Here is some really crazy ones:
I asked her about dating life…
– What Shelly said: She told me that if there is an event with a music venue that I should absolutely go. She was very adament for me to go.
– What came true: I got invited to volunteer at a comedy festival. Hosted at an outdoor music festival with my friend. That friend confessed his feelings that night and now we are dating lol… (I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR YEARS BY THE WAY SO I WAS KINDA LIKE …. yeah… Shelly..OK… nothing’s gonna happen but I’ll go…..
Another one from this summer…. I called Shelly because I was having a hard time dealing with family on this family reunion cabin trip. I have dealt with chronic pain and had job challenges and the family genuinely is good people but they don’t understand me and are all religious and can be hard for me to deal with.
– What Shelly said: BEAR. She just blurted out BEAR in the convo. The name of the resort had the word BEAR in it, which I figured was what she was picking up on.
– What happened: About 30 minutes later I went for a walk down the road (cottage country, ontario), with my sister and her husband. At first they texted me and said ohhh, we are gonna be late, you can go ahead if you want, and I was like, no I’ll wait… so all three of us go for a walk down the dirt road, which is a few KM to a main road.
– On that walk – my sister yells, “Over there! There’s a BEAR! . my sister had no knowledge of Shelly and I’s convo and is ultra conservative christian so I keep my metaphysical hobbies to myself and it was like; I didn’t see it, but she saw a black bear run across the road. I made her and her husband pick up sticks as weapons because bears are not things to screw around about! But this also could have been a warning for me not to go on the walk by myself and wait for them. IDK. all i know is Shelly said BEAR and like 45 minutes later there was a black bear.
Alright here’s a DOOZIE – I left my sales job in March. my manager had started having random flashes of anger / rage outbursts and I didn’t like them. We worked in a small store and worked 3 feet away from eachother FOR A DECADE. We had a friendship, made that store run great and essentially were in charge of the day to day operations with minimal help from our boss especially in the last few years. One day, my manager and I were arguing about something stupid (he wanted me to take credit for a sale, and I said NO. It was a web sale I didn’t think I deserved credit on and would not be able to justify it otherwise.) He started getting really angry, almost snarling at me and yelled “YOU KNOW WHAT YOU JUST FF***CKIN”………. I was not going to walk on eggshells with him anymore and that broke me. I just grabbed my stuff and walked out. That was a Saturday. I came in the next day, hoping for an apology or at least an acknowledgement of like, please don’t treat me like that, sorry thinks got out of hand, i’m just stressed, or whatever…. and I WOULD STILL BE WORKING THERE had that happened. However, as he was bringing the sandwich sign outside he just looked at me as if he wanted to kill me….. My stomach felt sick, my heart was having anxiety and palpitations….. I walked to the back room, took a couple deep breaths and said ok what do i have here. I couldn’t even think i just scanned the room, im like what belongings do i have in this place? and I walked back out.
I called one of my bosses and was crying and irate and he said to take a couple days off then reconnect in a couple days. long story short I did not go back. (This was March 2025)
WHAT SHELLY SAID: I know she said a lot but what sticks out now (hindsight is 2020) is that IT WOULD HAVE BEEN A LOT WORSE IF YOU STAYED
Summertime, everyone thinks I’m nuts for walking out of a 6 figure job. They don’t say it but I can feel it. Fast forward to Nov 2025, I received information regarding the situation that confirmed what Shelly had said, about how bad it would have been if I had stayed.
WHEN SHELLY SAID IT WOULD HAVE BEEN WAY WORSE IF I DIDN”T LEAVE, I BELIEVE IT!!!!
CALL HER IF U NEED ADVISE
